What don’t you like about the idea of God? Or God’s children?
I wouldn’t call God content to let us live in a dumpster fire. The Bible reveals a God who is loving and passionate for justice.
For the dumpster fire parts of life, I believe a day of judgment is coming, and after that a new creation so full of peace and joy that no one will even think anymore about the suffering we have now (Isaiah 65:17-25). And even now, there are still so many blessings to be enjoyed and mercies to be thankful for.
Sin has distorted all of creation. We can choose (an ongoing process with lots of failure) to not let it control us, but at the present time it can still affect us (we feel the heat of the dumpster fires even if we do our best not to stoke the flames). A lot of my understanding of why this is so is based on the Parable of the Tares, Matthew 13:24-30.