Any of the other Nostr Devs out there know what to do when the event returns a P tag without a preferred relay? This seems to be pretty common. I've tried using the relay the tag came in on, but that seems to be mostly a miss.

The only thing I can think of is to shotgun common ones, but that doesn't feel right. #[0] , I'd appreciate if you could repost this for me to get more eyes on this. I'm at a loss and don't really want to shotgun it.