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That's how it works in my house.

I stfu and completely cede the "emotional space" to wife and kids, meaning I don't get any emotional mommy like support from my wife, and in return I get to be the man, in sex and in leadership.

What I say goes, but I lead with grace to the best of my ability, careful never to tyrannize.
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Laser 2mo ago

This arrangement has been tested with very severe disagreements and even life/death situations.

It's an old recipe and it works.

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leadbyexample 2mo ago

I'd be curious to hear what the missus has to say, still as long as it works more power to you (like, literally)

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Laser 2mo ago

She balks and then she is grateful and feels lucky. It's a ongoing cycle.

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leadbyexample 2mo ago

you're probably the luckier one here, who knows

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nobody 2mo ago

Overstimulated males these days think being a man is being a hard ass and beating your chest

Masculine energy is calm and firm except extreme scenarios