Unfortunately, for some it is. Reasons to talk to people about who they are, since not everyone's use of labels will match my own. There comes a point though, that I just wonder, are they intentionally mis-using the label, or am I just jaded at how many times I think someone gets it to discover that what they "get" is not what I get. Be it poly or anarchy :P
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I couldnt agree more
Unfortunately, I think many do intentionally mis-use the term, or simply don’t care enough to use it correctly or even learn the slightest bit about the Ethical part of ENM, which often gives us a bad name in a culture that is finally starting to become aware of our existence.