you are very wrong about not using pure Go databases for this kind of work, look at all the dance you have to do to get the database to work on other platforms
if you used a native Go db library you don't have this complexity
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seriously, using build tooling and extraneous shit with Go is really missing the point, and there is ways to do everything without installing one other thing, and very very occasionally you need to use C code, and that's it
make and meson and postgres and mariadb and mongodb these are all the wrong path