Lately everybody’s been riding me about a lightning wallet

Here’s my case

Used WoS. Said bitch naw I will not get rugged/cleared that wallet out.

I only use Damus, I have no interest in accessing Nostr via a desktop. So, I’m looking for a wallet on my phone. It seems all of these are either

1) custodied by someone else (I’m all set)

2) require opening some channel/putting 50,000 sats or something on them

I’ve been a bitcoiner for four years. This shit seems like an awful lot. I’m not horribly confident in Lightning in general.

Everyone can get butthurt about that but I don’t see any simple compatible option