ah, yes. and eh hem…the good thing going here would be better(!) if each one of us can learn & grow from the things posted & (if one could manage to) actually discussed here.

pretty sure i am his first mute. 😔 (L😂L). i feel the need to explain how he is wrong, again, unfortunately. it is important bc he is making false accusations & trying to spread a false narrative. it’s no big deal to me, really, but i am nevertheless using energy on this, bc there is actually a larger issue to remind of…

in contrast to his idea of a vibe violation warranting a mute, other people constantly need to mute for things like r@cist rants, de@th threats, r@pe threats, or other violently threatening rhetoric…that sort of thing.

but #[3]​ feels attacked & violated from some very simple, valid, sound & good criticism, which if he listened to would make him a more authentic & chill person himself. the irony of fragile egos making poor judgments from the lack of self-awareness…is sad, unhealthy & harmful for truly civil societies. he is an adult male human and should be able to handle non-violent, well-intended, & super clear criticism.