To be honest, and being well-attuned with both a soft side and a rough side, I’d have to go with something from both sides of the spectrum.

There is very much an emotional fulfilment and value in having vulnerability, tenderness, warmth — even if kept strictly “platonic” (however you define the gap there 😂), and especially with someone mature like yourself; a motherly aspect to it.

It is something I’ve felt an occasional desire for, in both emotional and sexual ways - and it’s very difficult to do adequately, I have tried it (paid for it), and it usually comes off as a kind of pitiful therapy season “Poor thing… oh, your hour is up, pay extra or piss off”, it’s a very cold, cheap, empty experience leaving you with lighter pockets and raw guilt. 😂😂

Now on the other side; I adore a demure kind of servitude, how about your own young servant? To dress, speak, and act as you will, to perform, to serve, to take off your shoes as you come home, pour your wine, massage your feet with my tongue as you use my body as a foot stool — to worship your body and voice reverently — and to further objectify, use, and humiliate as you see fit.

Both have their places, both are lovely done right, even when frequently switched between; thoughts?