A concept I always find weird is the idea of the “shotgun dad” as in…
“when my daughter brings a boy over I’m gonna be cleaning a shotgun, he needs to treat my daughter right or else.”
I think most of the time this is a joke, but for anyone that actually means it… I mean bro this is a teenage boy lol
If you’ve been living correctly he’ll be scared shitless of you anyway. Even if you’re super nice to him. 😂
By all means be firm and have rules and boundaries etc… but leave the shotgun in its place.
Boys like girls, girls like boys.
It’s natural and normal.