They’re all nuts. Go for the gusto. I made the seemingly more “sensible” choice in college once. We were together for 2 years, got married, and after a year of marriage I found out she was sleeping with my boss (who was also my best man), her step uncle, and her stepdad’s cycling buddy, for up to a full year before we even got married. Better yet, skip “secular” women on mainstream social apps and find one who really loves God. Twenty one years in now with one of the good ones. And I met her (my current wife) literally two days after I looked at myself in the mirror and resolved aloud to be single for good. Life is strange and God is good. 