Same thing happen to me, still struggling but Nostr feels liberating since I found afew days ago. Although I barely have followers.
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they say follow a lot of people, but i like finding those few that like to engage in a good conversation. i am a foodie, so i look at all the food hashtags and talk to those people. it is your own experience. make it however you like, and use more than one client or app. test it all, feel it out. and always ask a question when you feel stuck #asknostr