Just give a fake name when you meet up.
Discussion
I know I could do that but I also think I’ve developed a rapport with some folks here and I think it would be cool if they too could see who I actually am. If they even care. Someone might care? Maybe?? I hope???😅🥲
This was a definite dillema for me as well. Been incognito for many years. Then I decided fck it, I'm going to nostrville.