Max 3 outbox and inbox relays in your list. THREE. Not 4, not 5, not 11 and definitely not 37.
Discussion
Me looking at hist.nostr.land because it's the 4th relay 
hist should not be on the inbox/outbox sections.
that relays is for you only and not for your followers.
So like this instead? 
Yeah, that should work!
Is there a bot or someway to check/advice the best relays sets for a specific npub, considering the ones he is paying, wot, ans more used and stable ones?
#asknostr
For you to use for yourself and download the posts you want or for your followers to find you?
Remember, inbox and outbox are lists for your followers to find you.
Going to be working on my relays today. Appreciate you brother 🙏🫂
And the Lord Vitor spake, saying, “First shalt thou open the Holy Relay List. Then shalt thou add three outbox relays, no more, no less. Three shall be the number thou shalt count, and the number of the relays shall be three. Four shalt thou not count, neither count thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five or eleven is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be reached, then savest thou thy Holy Relay List of Amethyst by pressing thine Holy Save button.