of course you can have your own no stir
so a few relays out of 2000 want payment, like who fucking cares?
nostr:npub179le7mlcuwj7l9dm6gy4seutqgvd7fwj2w35shm4dkr4te3q36ksd3lf56 nostr:npub1y7urda0puhzwr8rsw9vs7fclzk9c8fhc5zhpc8y2kyr68g9z4axqynagv7 No stir is more jannied that fedi, you cant even have your own no stir to not be jannied by the realys (that ofc you pay it shitcoin for) since they have to join relays.
of course you can have your own no stir
so a few relays out of 2000 want payment, like who fucking cares?
nostr:npub179le7mlcuwj7l9dm6gy4seutqgvd7fwj2w35shm4dkr4te3q36ksd3lf56 nostr:npub1y7urda0puhzwr8rsw9vs7fclzk9c8fhc5zhpc8y2kyr68g9z4axqynagv7 No you cant, also most relays will want payament in the future becuase all no stir is, is bs that no one has any reason to host other than to make cyrpto.
anyone can run a relay, why will most want payment? we will probably have p2p in a year
paid relays are not profitable