Very good thread. The advice in the video are pretty solid and work. In short, both pessimism and optimism are spirals. You are right either way, therefore the choice is obvious if you're not fucked in the head. If you are, you have to unfuck your head first.
This is very easy to do with joyful motherfuckers and extremely difficult with stubborn retards who think they know stuff already but the game is rigged against them because [insert reason].