1. https://thebitcoinmanual.com/articles/btc-trampoline-payments/
2. https://nostrcheck.me/media/public/nostrcheck.me_3892172002866187641689106856.webp
3. https://github.com/ACINQ/phoenix
Explanation:
1. Phoenix uses trampoline payments so it doesn't necessarily know who you're paying though they can see your channel balances.
2. Just close your channels dummy
3. Just fork the code dummy lol