I have seen the thread the most deeply i can, but it seems the anger note was the first "public" contact on #nostr. You have tried, other more polite way in private with coder and it didn't work.

Why not explaining the same way the problem you have faced without the anger (i mean the public note) ?

This was my point, i didn't told you that it was the first message you tried to exchange with coder.

You seems to be 3 users there to face this communication issue and another one about something else on another note.

I don't know you too, but it is better when you post a first note that not insult publicly someone else. This was the point, whatever is the reason why.

And i didn't say coders are angels there, but anyone could take it badly, even you if someone else did the same.

Perhaps coder can have other priority, perhaps they are lazzy about that point, but any anger or insult will not solved the point.