So buying bitcoin and swapping it to monero is the only way to get monero (outside of physically exchanging cash)?
TradeOrge is on cloudflare but cheap. There's a few swap sites:
https://simplifiedprivacy.com/swaps/index.html
However keep in mind that buying KYC bitcoin and swapping for XMR is riskier than buying KYC XMR, because you could be on the hook for crimes done with that bitcoin after you no longer control it
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Haveno is your gateway.