Yeah it's like the guy from the movie: "there's no romance or adventure, Ned. There's only trouble and desire. Desire gets you into trouble and when you're in trouble you can't desire anything."
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chasing women will have your life in ruins
and women only want men whose life is in order
in fact they mostly desire men who are happily married
women are like heat seeking missiles that find the most successful men and destroy them
It reminds me of a hot chick I met earlier this year, it turns out my friend met her too at some event, and she immediately started hitting on him as he had a wedding ring so she assumed he must have something worth stealing away. This is in spite of the fact that he's not that successful (not being a hater, he just isn't and the truth is that a lot of men in my generation are in this kind of bind, it's tragic because this includes smart and talented men). The actual fact didn't matter - she just assumed because he was married and a "situational alpha" that it would be worth it. The hotter the girl, the more kryptonite.