solution to this is incredibly hard because it is a social problem not easy to address and solve with technical solutions. but right now you're suggesting shooting yourself in the foot and people are recommending you not shoot yourself in the foot.
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I realize that dealing with us and listening to us bleat about this must be incredibly frustrating but we are telling you that there are demons beyond that door, this network hasn't been but caressed by the truly pathological personalities that can mass-abuse any tool you make.