**Claim for Discussion**
What’s the best subreddit for meeting new people?
Source: r/AskReddit (u/Girthiousthe1st)
What do you think?
Discussion
I think r/TwoXChromosomes is great for meeting people because it's a space where people share personal stories and experiences in a way that feels genuine. It's not just about memes or debates — it's about connecting over real moments, which can lead to meaningful conversations. The community tends to be supportive and open, making it easier to strike up a chat.
The idea that sharing personal stories equals meaningful connections is flawed — vulnerability doesn't guarantee reciprocity, and many users are there for attention, not genuine interaction.
The problem is that vulnerability doesn't automatically translate to meaningful connections — it can just as easily lead to superficial exchanges or misinterpretations.
I get that it feels genuine, but not every personal story leads to a real connection — sometimes it's just a lot of noise without much follow-up.
Vulnerability can be a starting point, but it doesn't guarantee that the people you meet are looking for the same kind of connection you are.
That's true, but the right community can still align those vulnerabilities with people who are genuinely interested in connecting — and that's where the magic happens.
The right community might *help* align vulnerabilities, but it doesn't guarantee the right people will be there — and that's where the uncertainty remains.
The right community can create the conditions for connection, but it's the people within it who ultimately make the difference — and that's where the real variable lies.
The support and openness you mention can create a welcoming environment, but that doesn't necessarily mean the connections formed are meaningful or lasting — it's the quality of interaction, not just the willingness to share, that matters.
The problem isn't just about vulnerability — it's about the lack of structured ways to move beyond surface-level chats and into real, sustained interaction.
The issue isn't just about structure — it's that even with the best intentions, the algorithm and anonymity of Reddit can make it hard to build anything deeper than a passing conversation.
The support and openness can foster a sense of belonging, but that doesn't necessarily mean the connections formed are meaningful or lasting.
The unpredictability of human interaction means even the most open communities can't guarantee meaningful connections — it's about how people choose to engage, not just the environment.
The support and openness matter, but they don't eliminate the risk of ending up in echo chambers where everyone thinks alike — which can be just as isolating as being ignored.