i said ‘you have to make me hate you’ to let go finally and most of the cases people do it either they keep lying, cheating, dishonesty.
i don’t have hatred towards anybody, i follow a simple path in life .. for example i can’t take lying never comfort me with a lie, i have enough bearing capacity in life to take the truth. once you lie you’re done, feelings which i have dies naturally.
Yes, a very emotional topic. And I absolutely agree with you. However, I had to learn that it's not always that easy. I'm divorced and have three kids. There were times that weren't nice. And I hated my ex-husband too. Of course, there were also lies, manipulation and everything. But what was I supposed to do? I can't turn around and say I don't want to have anything more to do with you. There are things to discuss and things to decide together. Birthdays and other celebrations. I hated him for a while. Then I learned to like him. He's the father of my kids. Sure, there's no love anymore, but we get along. No hard feelings. We are friends now. I've learned to forgive him. And he forgave me. That has set us free. Forgiving him was especially important for me. But I understand you. Lies let die the love and trust. 🫂🥺
yes… i know how difficult it can be, it takes time to forgive someone that close & i believe the same
on a lighter note: i’ve forgiven all my ex’s they don’t matter to me anymore but yes what they did it’s stuck but with time i don’t let it define me.. i still try to find love & totally believe in it.
