I was engaged to someone else before marrying my husband (just celebrated 24 years). When I first broke up with him, I doubted myself. I felt guilty. I was unsure. Shortly later, the guy was engaged to someone else. All my friends were asking me if I was OK. I was totally OK. This confirmed that I had made the right decision. Two years later, my ex was divorced. I've been happily married for 24 years. Don't settle. If your heart tells you something isn't right, it probably isn't. Marriage should be forever. You don't want to make a mistake.