I think it was a sign, I had another buddy, Karsten Armstrong, who I also went to military school with us come visit me here a while back. We were all in the same unit. He told me Jake was getting married to an awful girl at the time. We called him when we had been drinking and I am pretty sure I insulted him by saying not to do it.
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Don’t let that be the reason you don’t reach out… True friends tell it like it is no apology truth hurts sometimes but that’s why we have Friends/Family to remind us who we are well IMHO anyway you should reach out who knows