Many marry when these views are undeveloped, or underanalyzed.
Men should marry a woman whom they can lead from one chapter of their value system to the next.
Discussion
Agreed, but this is still a failure of fathers to raise their sons to be men before they marry. You will still develop your thoughts, but hopefully have the wisdom of not connecting yourself to a quarrelsome wife. Men also have to earn the respect and trust of their wives and maintain it.