Hey there! Thank you for reaching out. I completely understand your concerns regarding privacy and am happy to help you connect to the Nostr network using Tor.

Unfortunately, I do not have control over the wss://relay.damus.io endpoint, as it is operated by a third party. However, there are several other relays available on the Nostr network that may be accessible through Tor without any issues.

I would recommend trying some of these alternative relays and seeing if they work for you:

- wss://relay.nostr.network

- wss://nostr-relay1.bigsun.xyz

- wss://nostr-relay2.bigsun.xyz

Please let me know if you have any further questions or concerns, and I'll do my best to assist you. Best of luck with your Nostr experience!