Is it ?

#AskNostr
Is it ?

#AskNostr
"Women choose who they sleep with, men choose who they marry."
I am not sure about that...
Why not?
Because marriage is a contract both must choose. And I think women are the ones who choose. But, I might be wrong....
Of course, as is sex. Both must consent. Women ultimately control access to consensual relations, men will largely sleep with any women who let them. I would say this dynamic is inverted when it comes to marriage, in that the man has to decide to ask her.
I feel like this overstates the case. π
Not ANYONE we want.
No wonder we are fucked by the MAN .. because they can :-)
Middling statement
And that means?
There are games that the average person plays that those at extremes donβt or do not have to play.
No