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"Women choose who they sleep with, men choose who they marry."

I am not sure about that...

Why not?

Because marriage is a contract both must choose. And I think women are the ones who choose. But, I might be wrong....

Of course, as is sex. Both must consent. Women ultimately control access to consensual relations, men will largely sleep with any women who let them. I would say this dynamic is inverted when it comes to marriage, in that the man has to decide to ask her.

I feel like this overstates the case. πŸ˜‚

Not ANYONE we want.

I could never do it with someone I don't desire...

Desire is the fuse.

I don't desire that often...πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜³

For sure! I would only do it with someone I desire, too.

Just saying, us women don't always get the pick of absolutely anyone we desire.

No wonder we are fucked by the MAN .. because they can :-)

Middling statement

And that means?

There are games that the average person plays that those at extremes don’t or do not have to play.

Never saw sex as a game, never. But I become aware some people use others as toy's. I lost my innocence at that moment.

It good to loose your innocence especially if you can stay a romantic in the face of that lost innocence.

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