I suspect how you frame your life is a significant factor on whether this understanding is correct or false.

I.e. could I have gotten where I am and being great in both realms of my life doing the things I've done. Probably not! But could I have chosen a different sector, such as a school teacher or maybe in manufacturing....possibly.

But the wins and losses would not be the same.

More mind noise. But, it's been occupying my mind as of late as a curiosity. I knew and understood the costs of my decisions when I made them. But maybe I could have considered different options to choose from.

No regrets, but how would I advise the next generation if I was asked the question.