nostr:npub1hj9ykwt2e8vzygrd84xxclant2eev6fd35a5386hv90rutr7x2gsnmfr6v Yea being "subtle" or shy and expecting some mind reading I think is a flaw of both sexes, at least in america. Honestly, no offense to you as I dont know you and dont mean to include you, but dating in the USA is generally very childish compared to other countries I've lived and dated in.