So, this is where we are. Anyone want to get paid to set up my Relay? You get sats and your CV forever says "built the famous for it's name nostr.naut.social Relay".
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Best I can do for you
https://andreneves.xyz/p/set-up-a-nostr-relay-server-in-under
I was using their other one for nostream. Good, but I have too many gaps in my knowledge.
I see you managed to do it yourself - well done!
Sadly, no. I hired someone.
I have been trying to one since then but I have run aground in the madness that is Ubuntu linux.
I got as far as the tmux but after that, too many gaps.
Next one will be a hands on show me with a friend who was like "you should have asked me, it's my day job". NOW he tells me :-)
Don't beat yourself up. It IS very hard. I'm hoping that NixOS becomes more user friendly as the project evolves because honestly it's the only thing keeping me sane in DevOps land.