I feel you man. I really do.

I also know a lot of things that I could do, but I also don't have the means or time to pursue it properly..

The only thing I can recommend for now is to lower your expenses even more

(if possible) I know this is difficult if you have a gf/wife and a child..

I'm rooting for you man 💪 I can tell you're not a dumbass and I'm sure you can find some sort of solution.