i endorse the idea of not talking about shit you hate to people, it really grinds people down to the point they don't wanna be around you. profess your love for the idea of a large family, how much you love x or y, never constnatly go on abotu what you hate.
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I make them ask me for it. Although I don’t really do the anger thing so much as the funny thing. Everyone gets a kick out of it, unless they’re just pity laughing at my jokes.
It’s good to have a “nah, it’s not fun talking about ugly stuff” and having them actively request an update. Good filler for conversation w/ family, and at this point it’s a security notice for the parents in the family