I only published this note to my private and personal relay. For you to see it, you must be using a client that supports the outbox model - at least initially. This means that your client looks at the relays that I'm using because your follow me and then looks at those relays to see if I published anything new there to display in your timeline. If you comment on or share that note, some clients will broadcast the original note to your relays. Both of these tactics help with decentralization and censorship resistance as my content, which was only originally sent to one server, be spread around the internet.