I'm glad I dated many women and didn't have sex with them before I met my wife. I had made all the mistakes in my 20's so once I decided to do it right in my 30's, I had no time for tramps. Most wanted to jump in bed right away, but I had recently converted to Catholicism and this gave me conviction to hodl (so to speak) which kept me out of many traps. It showed me that, once I did meet my wife, it is truly rare once you find the right one.