Bitcoin = Be your own Bank
Nostr = Be your own Communications Hub
It comes at learning COST - if you nor willing to LEARN stuff - how to use wallet or how to use relay in depth then sorry to say neither is suitable for ur personality. u cannot ask bank manager to recover ur seed or ask helpdesk to recover ur nsec. Hope u get this.
FREEDOM comes with RESPONSIBILITY only for LEARNERs whoever like SELF-RELIANT.
(e.g. Right to own a gun doesn't give anyone RIGHT or authority to shoot anyone.)