Or maybe the other way round. Bill was a total dork. Melinda was confident and sexy AF. So she had all the power and he was unable to consent. Again their entire intimate life was abuse and rape.
It's a ridiculous paradigm.
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Both Bill and Melinda knew what they were getting into. They were both responsible for their own decisions. They both had agency. There is zero reason to pretend that one was the helpless victim of the other.
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