Yes, there are definitely sovereignty tradeoffs in Lightning. If you want to run everything on your own hardware, and your hardware is (for example) behind a residential internet connection, and/or TOR, then zaps and other Lightning payments might be slow to confirm -- but maybe you're OK with that.
Regarding marketing and etc. -- the first version of our homepage yielded widespread complaints about "too much information" -- so we moved the detailed info on our node-in-the-cloud service to here: https://rizful.com/node_in_the_cloud ... there are tradeoffs to make we have learned not only in "how should I get my zaps" but "how can we introduce new users to Nostr and zapping without immediately scaring them away with complicated stuff."
A hosted webpage is very different than targeted advertizing. Your approach was borderline throwing shade at me personally by publically profiling me on my own post.
It seems youve made assumptions about my expertise as well as my values, compounding that ignorance with the tone deafness of a self-serving and fake olive branch.
Do better.
