Setup a strfry relay on your home computer:
https://vods.utxo.one/tutorials/nostr/home-strfry-relay-final.mp4
The intimidating part is maintaining over time. :)
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Private relays will be way easier, no spam and low volume of notes!
Let's pretend we never have to update and recompile tho :)
It only gets easier after the first time