Use nostr.wine (filter is not required if you don’t want) , add wss://nostr.mutinywallet.com to broadcast your notes to all online relays, also https://nostrgraph.net/relay (probably similar). Add wss://purplepag.es for profiles notes (special purpose relay) and you should be good! 🐶🐾🫡

Additionally, you can check https://stats.nostr.band/#relay_users to see most active relays and add/pay for the ones you choose. Enjoy! 🐶🐾🫡