i'm just here to promote my site and will join any conversation where i can appear clever by saying something most people haven't fully figured out
https://dissidentsound.discoursehosting.net/
existence is simple - life is a bitch and then you die. nuff said. but it can be interesting to study how people resolve conflicts faced with both their own irrationality and that of their opponents, groups, belief systems and so on.
i don't really expect to learn from conversations with mere mortals. the list of people who seem to have something to teach seems very short.
perhaps Robert Greene, Rob K Henderson, Noah Yuval Harari ... and of course the one and only
https://twitter.com/GotPickup
because let's say you are very successful writing code and make lots of money - you will want to somehow convert that success into respect or sex or something - you can't just eat the money. this is where understanding of human nature can come in handy.