I know that you can't change people. And when you have a person in your life who you wish was different, and they aren't, you have to just accept that they are the way that they are and it's not your responsibility to fix them. You have to do that or it will drive you crazy. All of this I know...
But, how do you do that?
Let them go
Ya the question is how? If it someone who you are going to be in the same room with regularly, you can know intellectually that you need to 'let them go', but how do you do so emotionally?
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Lolol. Kidding.
Why are you in the same room with them? Like, can’t you just walk away?
I'm not talking about an active abuser. Just someone who isn't doing the work. some one who needs help but won't go get it. I'm sure you know the type. So no, it doesn't make sense to rearrange your life to avoid being in the same room with them.
Yeah, and I expel them from my life.
Sounds like it’s family.
Still, expel them.
Comes on its own when youve done all the right things and it barely changes anything
You gotta integrate the words FUCK IT into your being
I try to put up the walls of accepting influence from them, and avoid spending time with them unless necessary
