Hello Violet and welcome to nostr. I don’t usually recommend adding a lightning wallet to new nostriches, but for anyone providing a service right out of the gate should really have a way to get tips or in this case zaps.
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Thank you, I tried but it's just too confusing. People have explained it, and I still have no idea how to do this.
Use #noStrudel and add #coinos wallet. In noStrudel go to settings, lightening, add coinos wallet and set auto pay with Web LN. Will be able to zap and receive instantly. Coinos is not KYC and don't even need an email address if do not care about getting notified. Stack starts growing send to cold storage.