Don’t add the sh*tforce one, it’s run by a bad actor.
Seems doubtful, you probably just had temporary client or internet connection issue. If you're concerned with censorship, consider adding nostr:npub1x0r5gflnk2mn6h3c70nvnywpy2j46gzqwg6k7uw6fxswyz0md9qqnhshtn free speech relay. He will not censor on reports (though clients still may):
wss://relay.poster.place
Also if you wish to post back to the fediverse (mastodon et al) bridge please add the following:
wss://relay.mostr.pub
wss://relay.shitforce.one
Discussion
Too late oops
I’m js, the person that runs it is someone you don’t want to associate with. Do what you want tho.
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Would you add a relay run by someone that regularly talks to feds or tolerates pedos?
Does he get any benefit of Me having it added?
No, he does not have any advantage other than that which any other relay operator (most of whom we don't even know) gets which is your connection data.
There is a 3rd option but it is often down including now (perhaps it's permanently down) so I didn't suggest it since you're on damus and adding too many relays on mobile really hampers battery life:
wss://nostr-us.coinfundit.com
At least with sf1 it's reliable and if it gets taken down I will know and can advise people. Resiliency is an important part of nostr so relying on mostr.pub alone is not a good idea. It would be nice if there were further relays writing to mostr but this will significantly increase the traffic and therefore the expense to run it (because so many more people will connect to it).