How to keep a #man happy #2:

Men are constantly #criticised at work, at play and even at home. It is extremely rare for men to be #praised for even the simplest of things. Men are also more #critical of themselves, than anyone else could ever say out loud. When we make #mistakes, we feel it in our bones. Our #pride and #ego takes a massive hit. That said, just the smallest praise for the most basic things can pick up a man froman funk. A "wow, good stuff", or a more personal " I really #appreciate that" can make all the difference in the world.

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That might be why they are so eager to serve and please. "Pay attention to those feet or there will be pain." The rewards or punishments are instant and targeted directly at them. Whatever they do it will get noticed. As I said simple creatures. :-)

Some men definitely lean that way. I understand that perspective, having been on both sides of that fence. You're definitely right, we are indeed simple creatures, but sometimes the simplicity can be deceptive to those who don't know. 😊

As I've gotten older, my needs have changed, and it seems to be a trend amongst my peers as welll. 😁

Don't we all change as we grow older? Needs, values, comforts, pleasures... That is not male exclusive.

By the way, I like that you leave meaningful comments and seem open to discussion. Thank you. 👍

Isn't that what people do on Nostr? :-D