Also, I don't believe a word participants say about willingness or unwillingness to marry an OF performer.
They're just virtue-signaling, they wouldn't even know their future willingness or otherwise because its not a dispassionate abstract decision.
Men believe all kinds of stupid things about women, especially when their ego is involved.
I know a guy who had an affair with his best friend's wife. The friend found out, and divorced. This guy then married the girl, utterly convinced she would never do to him what she'd done to all her exes. Guess the ending?
She did. Surprise! Guys are dumb and miss obvious red flags.