Huh? I never have a problem getting a date. This is for others I’ve observed.
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I didn't say anything about you getting a date. Not connecting well is what I mean.
Apparently it’s not for many. How sad
People are like jigsaws you gotta fine the one & check every side to see which side you connect with.
Have you ever been in love? Obviously 🙄 no reason to answer.
I’m asking because I think it changes one’s perception. Genuinely, my hope is we find a way of communicating self-love to the next generation. This could prevent much trauma that many have recently faced . No sass 💁🏻♀️
🙄 yes it does because when you are & you realize it.
https://archive.org/download/Spice_Girls_1996_2_Become_1/Spice_Girls_1996_2_Become_1.mp4
I think theres a difference between respect & love I would want to teach self respect as love for thyself is to respect myself. Which most people trade their respect for love. Sacrifice that & tragedy with despair shall follow.
Maybe you’re right. I’ve had similar discussion with someone before. He felt self respect the most important. Me felt love is. Maybe it’s the difference of how one defines tragedy and despair. Interesting 🤨
Both are equally important respect & love. Communication is important as well because jumping to presumptions can also lead to tragedy.
Truth. IDK 🤷🏻♀️ Love is such a beautiful thing. So many ways it comes and goes in life. Someone once said something like: It’s great when you find someone you fire on all cylinders with.
That always hit me as truth. As I’ve aged it’s become apparent that maybe this isn’t always possible. Sadly.
I don't think you can find someone you would as you say fire on all cylinders with. I think people find people they can feel copastetic with & respect their boundaries. Love grows from a solid foundation I hope to find a woman I can trust to build a foundation & connect with on a spiritual level.
As a lifetime weirdo and romantic , I wish you find that too. My heart feels this need for humanity.
Spiritual levels are another thing entirely. Example: my best platonic male friend & I have discussed spiritual matters though we both know we have no desire to be intimate physically.
We agree that to be with one built on trust & foundation is best choice. For me: #spirituality has been lifelong. Freely admit to battling #ego daily. She’s a fierce competitor 😂. No joke. Lastly, anytime I think I know **anything** the universe reminds me I know nothing. And that’s beautiful IMO. Hugs 🫂
Spirituality in love levels to me is when we get to that point of being beyond. It's not about belief in religion but belief in each other. When you feel that harmonic empowerment being past all the steps.
When the everyday things become routine with mind at ease, understandings without the need to explain, compassion that makes you feel relief, or experiences no matter how small or big feel unique because you are together that kinda weird thing.
Very few people get to experience that & I met a couple which achieved that & when you see it in person it's actually pretty disgusting to me at least. Idk how to really explain it but uh moving in slow motion, long gazes a smile so fucking big your looking at them like are they on drugs? If you believe in spiritual energies & radiating auras then maybe you feel it to because it makes you look like wtf is this bullshit in public?
Idk I guess it's disgusting to see to me because I wish I had it & maybe if I had it i'll be like those people in the movies you see all mellow droopy eyed going awwweeeehhh.
It exists and it’s wonderful. Truly.
Yeah but it's not found it's built over time.