Damus. But the fact that you are asking underlines the problem. The experience and functionality should be consistent. As a creative, I don't find it helpful at all. I believe that people should start building with more consistency and focus on platform maturity. The whole relay part is not that great. Your content might end up on shady servers because, let's face it, for now, the most attractive use of the protocol gathers people that believe they can use it as a dark market or people that were banned from other platforms for good reasons