Life can be tough. My friend wake up today that he lived 30 years with a woman whom he didn't love and to realize this it only needed one meet with his love of his life at a supermarket. Why he was not living today with his love of his life? Because he had no balls to leave his wife after 1 year of marriage when he realized he is not in love. We all can play a Judge in this situation, but we can't argue on it that his life is now totally wasted. There is no easy advice.