I'm holding off on listing with nostr watch until it gets out of Alpha. We do have the relay listed on https://relay.exchange/ .

As far as what makes it different from other paid relays? It's currently running with the default Nostream settings so not much different from many of the paid relays out there. It is on a dedicated VPS with plenty of resources (4 vCPU and 8gb of memory.) Also it's located in NYC so will have super fast response times for users in that are in this region.