Women try to find the most protective approach to everything because they feel insecure by nature. They have found that the State is the new guy to be in love with because apparently is the one that provides better security. That's also the reason why the State is also so against the hetero man. The hetero man is too secure about himself to be convinced and brainwashed, so attack him indirectly by making very difficult to find proper women, with the help of feminism, abortion, and homosexuality.
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Interesting take, I think it’s got validity. The state has become paternal / maternal (responsible for education & perpetual dependencies), it’s replaced religion for many, and (as you aptly pointed out) it’s actually fulfilling the role of protector and “partner” to many (especially women and to certain minorities).
A very popular modern take for younger women is that they don’t need a man and they don’t want children. They’re stuck in this bizarre adolescent-like stasis where all they chase is satisfaction of their own pleasure center and they have a visceral repulsion to serious responsibilities or hard work.
These women can make good money doing fake work (zoom meetings and emails and “reports” that mean nothing). They all live in cities, spend lots of time curating their narcissistic social media facades, eat out often, date prolifically but never commit, live for the weekend or the next “big” event, and never assume real responsibilities.
It will be interesting to see this archetype when they’re 50 years old.